I have come to a conclusion; although we cannot always control a specific situation, we can always respond to it, no matter how or when it happened. I personally believe that all events are predetermined, however we still make decisions. I believe that everything falls into a big puzzle, a tapestry if you will. I believe that if events of our life were to change, that we would arrive at the same destination that we eventually will anyway. On the issue with marriage, I believe that everyone will eventually find someone, so why worry? It’s really pointless if you think about it. Fate will find a way to get two people together if they are meant to be. I believe the only way we can change our destiny is the way we respond to particular situations, and I still believe this only affects it in a minor way.