Thoughts 10/21/2008 October 21, 2008
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I have been reading quite a bit lately on mind-coercion and brainwash. There are some very interesting articles on the net about this. One fact that stuck out in my mind, is that almost everyone, when being influenced, makes decisions on emotions instead of logic. That makes perfect sense if you think about it. How else could dictators or cult-leaders convince the masses of their ideology being true? It’s all about charisma; and if you think about it, that’s a pretty scary thought.
So, how can one be so easily influenced? How can someone, just like me or you convince an enormous mass of people to follow them? What separates them? Well, that’s what I’ve been reading about a lot today. It comes down to sales tactics. It’s the same principle that car salesmen use. Convince someone that they need something (from a car salesman point-of-view, a car) throw in some comforting words, and bam. It’s not that different with cults. From what I gather, these cults start by stripping away built-in instincts and values that we grow up with, and start with a clean slate. Then, they start using the simplest building blocks, laying a foundation. If you think about it, we read people’s minds every day, in an attempt to persuade or get what we want. You may not even realize you’re doing it, but you are. Day by day, you feel out people’s moods to see if they’ll give you what you want, even if it’s something as simple as getting your spouse or parent to cook you something, all the way to convincing your spouse you need a new vehicle.
I read another interesting article about persuasion using twisted logic. A method I’d never really thought of before, but am guilty of doing. Think about it. How many times have you told a story and left out some of the points that alter the story? Maybe I’m just weird, but I know I am guilty of it. That’s a form of persuasion. In a way, we’re manipulating. But, as humans we use justification to eliminate the feeling of guilt. A little off topic, but personally I believe justification is the sole cause of any major crime or action. People begin justifying how they can steal, rape, murder, etc… and it becomes easier and easier. It’s scary to think that our minds and bodies, when broken down, aren’t different from some of the worst people in history. But, on the flip side, we aren’t that different from some of the great minds either. I like to believe that everyone has potential to be something great, and I do believe that.
Thoughts 9/26/2008 September 26, 2008
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The problem with politics. I’ll start by saying I hate politics more than anything on earth. I despise a topic that can get people blood-red fighting mad, when they in fact know very little about it. You may ask, if you hate it so much, then why is it part of your blog title? Well, when I do blog about politics, which is extremely rare, I don’t force my opinions on readers. I don’t typically blog on topics that can start an uproar. You’ll never see a one-sided argument regarding politics from me. Ever.
I will tell you my problem with the subject, though. No one really knows what they are voting for. No one. Sure, we can see the portrayed side of the black guy, and the portrayed side of the white guy running, but we don’t know their thoughts, their intentions. To me, buying into their speeches is a mild form of brainwashing. Anyone with enough charisma can convince the world of anything. I am not saying I fear that a dictator will rise up, and yes, I understand the structure of the U.S. Government. My main point is that I don’t know the person that I would be voting for. Yes, that’s right, I don’t vote. I’ve been called idiot numerous times for it, but I just don’t know these candidates. I’m not going to vote for a party, because that’s just ludicrous. Another main problem is how it’s such a “once every four year” thing. What I mean by that is, when the election year comes around, all these people come around and get so engrossed, but the years in between, have zero interest.
I don’t look down on people that vote, that’s not my point. The U.S. should proclaim itself as an aristocracy, because when it boils down to it, that’s what we really are, behind all the curtains. The election is so controlled, more than probably 90% of people realize. All these 18 – 24 year old zealots that have taken a couple of politics classes, with more fervor than a Catholic Priest, all of a sudden think they are the world’s expert on political affairs. Don’t get me wrong, not saying I’m an expert. I don’t know much about it, and don’t want to. One prime example of how misleaded people are is the whole Palin incident. When she was chosen for McCain’s running mate, he creeped ahead in polls. It’s simply because all the women that are upset that Hillary didn’t get in are voting for McCain. See, this is why I don’t vote. My point is, if you have an opinion, great. Go vote, go do your thing. Don’t pretend to be a future president. The more you open your mouth, the bigger of an idiot you look like.
Thoughts 9/12/2008 September 12, 2008
Posted by Kelsey Martineau in Psychology, Religion.Tags: Psychology, Religion
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I saw an image on a friends blog this morning, that really hit me. Check out this photo:

I realize this is meant to be a humorous picture, but if you think about it, how accurate is it going to be for a lot of people? I mean, sure, you could add a couple of more frames, add a wife, maybe a kid, but that still wouldn’t change the main idea. What hits me about that picture is that it’s a pure mediocre life. It’s a meaningless life. That really is a scary thought. I feel like I wake up some days and I’m a few years older. My question is, is this life fine with anyone, or does everyone fear this?
I’m not saying I want to change the world, change people, influence world affairs. I’m talking about meaning for oneself. I just want to be content with what I’m doing. I think everyone wants to be satisfied, but the question is, are some people fine with the kind of life in those seven steps? Or is everyone on a journey to find a life with purpose?
Thoughts 8/14/2008 August 14, 2008
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I really do believe that things have a way of evening out in life. I actually do believe that the universe “course-corrects.” I am not entirely sure what force is behind it though. Whether it’s God, or some other supernatural power, or even Karma. I think we all like to believe in this idea, simply because it reassures us that no deeds go unpunished, or more appropriately stated, unrecognized. It’s funny to me though, how probably around 80% of people don’t truly put any faith in their beliefs.
Maybe it’s not a supernatural force though, maybe it’s simply the action and reaction theory. I don’t think people realize just how much influence, or impact they (potentially) have on people around them.
I feel like in the last 5 years, the only major change I’ve experienced is my point-of-view on the world. Day by day, I find myself thinking that people don’t ever make a major change. I think it’s more of a fanatical experience or ‘kick’ that lasts a few months. Just my opinion though.
Thoughts 8/11/2008 August 12, 2008
Posted by Kelsey Martineau in Psychology, Sociology.Tags: Psychology, Sociology
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Today’s post is on people. It seems like it’s the popular thing these days for younger kids to express themselves in extreme individualistic ways. I notice this more and more everyday. I guess it’s actually an attempt at non-conformism. But, if you really think about it, is it really non-conformist to act different if that’s the only reason you’re doing it? It brings to mind the type of person that says they don’t care what people think, or don’t care what other’s opinions are of them. 99% of the people on earth care what other people think, and that ones that actually don’t care, aren’t spouting left and right about not-caring, they just don’t. Actually, George Carlin, the comedian, had an excellent quote about it:
People who say they don’t care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don’t care what people think.
How true is that? I mean, I know he was a comedian, and I know it was an attempt at being humorous, but there’s so much truth behind that statement. I saw a guy today in a restaurant I was in. He had long hair, a beard, some piercings, tattoos, etc… He was sitting there by himself, and out of the restroom came two kids. One was probably 5, and the other 9 or 10. I assume the three were brothers, and the two younger ones probably hadn’t seen their older brother in a long time, just a guess, but that’s how it looked to me. The younger brother’s were dressed like their older brother, minus the piercings and tattoos of course. The younger of the two kids had a hat on, and turned his backwards, to attempt to fit in more. That’s an exact parallel of my point of non-conformist youth. Particularly artists. Artists have always been portrayed as the type that is messed up in the head, and wears out of this world clothing, with odd berets, shirt and pant styles, etc… But that particular “messed up” style has become the norm, nullifying what it was in the first place.
Thoughts 7/9/2008 July 9, 2008
Posted by Kelsey Martineau in Religion, Sociology.Tags: Religion, Sociology
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Society lately has really been bothering me. I have no idea why, though. Normally I’m indifferent to the world and it’s stupidity, but recently I’ve noticed just how bad things are. Some of the stuff that goes on, the things that are accepted now, and the general attitude of people, really makes me feel sick sometimes. So, why is it? Have things escalated rapidly in the last year? The answer is yes. Compare now to 1980, 1990, and 2000, and watch the huge % increase of demoralization and filth in America. We have that more, more, more complex, where nothing is enough, and we have to continue to satisfy our need with something more extreme every day. This isn’t only displayed by sexual perversion, but everything. Everything is getting extreme. I.E. politics, social affairs, etc… Everywhere you turn we have to fulfill that need with an extreme. I guess the best metaphor would be a drug addiction. At first, popping a pain pill is enough, but after you grow a tolerance to it, you have to have something stronger. Perfect comparison to what’s happening here.
I look at people I grew up with, and used to go to church with, that are now Atheists and Agnostics (not that I have a problem with them, but the transformation just amazes me). Some of the very same people that told me that they felt like “God” was telling me to do something, while we were in church together. So, what’s that mean? Why the change? What causes a person to do a 180° turn? An excellent question.
Fixing this problem is hard. If you’re a Christian, or a Jew, then you probably know the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. Regardless of whether or not you take the Bible as a history book or simply a moral guideline, that story has some impact. I’m not saying that’s going to happen to America; however, this country was founded with a basis of Christianity, and what is it coming to now? So, how do we become part of the solution, instead of complaining? Maybe you have some thoughts? Is fixing it possible? Or are people to broad minded. Nothing’s impossible. The friends that always tell me that I can’t do something, or something is out of my reach, is what motivates me to reach my goals. That negative mindset that we can’t change anything is what will ultimately destroy us. Everyone that’s made a difference in the world is a person just like me or you.
Thoughts 7/1/2008 July 1, 2008
Posted by Kelsey Martineau in Philosophy, Psychology, Religion, Sociology.Tags: Philosophy, Psychology, Religion, Sociology
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It’s going to be hard to translate my thoughts into words today, because I’ve been doing some serious thinking. Actually, it’s not by choice though. Many topics have plagued my mind today. Not to start the blog off in a negative way, but my first thought is how self-centered everyone on the earth is. I don’t really mean that how most of you are taking it, though. What I mean is, everyone has a “It’s all about me attitude” But, I don’t mean on a personal level, I mean on a worldwide level. Does that make sense? If you do not comprehend, keep reading and I’ll try to explain. The majority of the world thinks that this is it. Our lives are the end-all be-all of existence. Sure, we have deities that some of us worship. A lot of us like to believe in a higher power, because it makes us feel safe. Our life is meaningless, if you think about it. I saw a video the other day on Youtube, about how small one single person really is, compared to the rest of the Galaxy that we actually know about. There are over half-a-trillion galaxies out there, and we selfishly believe that we are all that matters. Half-a-trillion, people. Do you realize how many that is? We are one planet in one solar system in ONE of those. That’s ridiculous. What are we really? Think about it. Even the richest guy in the world, living out his life, in all of time and all the universe, what difference will he make? Zero. Most people don’t care about facts like these for some reason. Sure, everyone says, “well this is all we know,” What a dense mind it takes to think that.
This partly ties into some other thoughts I’ve been having lately, about the degradation of society. What spawned those thoughts was simply a song I heard on the radio. The “I kissed a girl and I liked it” song that is climbing the billboard faster than many songs in history. The song itself didn’t get me to thinking, but the comment the DJ made after is what got me. The girl that did that song, I can’t recall her name, used to be a (very successful) Christian artist. Her parents are both preachers. I have no idea why that impacted me so much. I think it hit me very hard. It stunned me. I know people fall, but that is just incredible. It shows me that it’s all about fame, riches, and the “me, me, me” complex. Like I said, I still believe America is on the same road that Rome was on. I recently took a three week trip to Asia. Many different parts of Asia in fact. I love it there. True, some places I visited were communist, and are much more bound by the law, however, I will tell you this from my experience: The people as a whole seem much more content. They appreciate things a lot more. Sure, you can say that the reason is because that they have so little in some cities over there, but obviously that has more of a positive effect than a negative one. Granted, you are going to find greed no matter where you go in the world, but it’s scarce there. I feel a great change in myself since that trip. I feel like my awareness was greatly increased about a lot. So, as far as the degradation of society, how far is too far for America? What does it take for people to wake up and see what’s going on? I’m not talking like one of these zealots; I’m just sitting here watching the change. If you can’t see it, you must be blind.
So, how do we become part of the solution, instead of complaining? Maybe you have some thoughts? How do we do it, people? I believe that it depends on your personal beliefs. If you are a Christian, then spreading the word is obviously the answer. If you’re a Muslim, then it’s basically the same, “purge the non-believers,” a paraphrase from the Qur’an. If you’re Buddhist/Hindu, live by your moral code and treat others with respect and Karma will take care of you. I could go on and on, but it’s pointless. I think you probably realize my point by now. People hate Christians, but it’s not only Christians that aren’t living by what’s right. It’s everyone. It isn’t one particular faith that has to crusade out and change the world. It’s everyone. I read a great biography of someone once that said, “I don’t want to change the world, only the people in it.” One person can’t do it. I can blog, write books, post on forums, etc… all day long. But alone, I can’t change the world. It will take a reformation.
House Character Personalities – Part 6 of 6 – Dr. Gregory House June 26, 2008
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Dr. Gregory House. And last, but of course not least, there’s House. I think House is commonly misjudged. He is often called a heartless bastard, that cares nothing about others. This is in fact true, to an extent. However, throughout the seasons, we have seen House’s caring side shine through. When, you may ask? Other than of course saving lives, how has he been caring? Well, we see in the first season, House lies to the transplant committee for a woman that obviously didn’t deserve the heart, but he believed she deserved to live.
Wilson claims House has the “Rubik’s” complex. He just wants to solve the puzzle. Of course, this is true. Perhaps this is why he’s at times perceived to actually “care.” I don’t think so, though. Many speculate that House was why he was because of his leg, but at the end of the first season, we are proved wrong by this, by his ex-girlfriend of five years. She told Cameron that House was “Pretty much the same” before the infarction in his leg. It’s very interesting to know why people are how they are. We also got a chance to see House’s parents, and the way his father treated him. Perhaps this is part of the reason that House is somewhat damaged.
The Holmes/House similarities amaze me more and more as the show progresses. House doesn’t only find pleasure in solving medical cases, but he obsesses over people. Particularly his team (old and new) as well as patients, and Wilson. However, he doesn’t obsess because he cares; he obsesses because it’s unsolved in his mind. It’s a puzzle to him. It’s unclear exactly how long House and Wilson have been friends, but it was probably a good bit of time, because of the history that they hint around at. House likes to display his intelligence, often making fun of people’s weaknesses and problems. Often times, it doesn’t even appear that House is analyzing people, only to impress them with the answer to their problems extremely quick. Another exact comparison to Sherlock Holmes. For the most part, he can figure out motives and even past events from simply how they act, or their appearance. Of course, House hates meeting patients, and only does so in extreme situations. If he does in fact meet them, he is extremely short with them, and has a bit of a poor bedside manner. He takes risks when treating patients usually, almost always paying off.
Although I don’t care for the word, I would have to call House a non-conformist. He doesn’t care what people think of him. But, contrasting many other people in the world, he doesn’t actually have to say it. His actions prove this more than his words. Obviously, judging by his clothes, constant stubble, and refusal to wear a lab coat, he doesn’t care what he looks like or how people perceive him. He even fakes his name sometimes, and claims he’s “someone from the lab,” or something similar. We even see him tell some people at a bar, when a woman passes out in one season, to “Send her to Princeton-Plainsboro Hospital, ask for Dr. House.”
House has developed a great deal throughout the four seasons. It is obvious that he has started caring a little more, only if it is slightly more than before. Overall, House is stubborn and sarcastic, two qualities he will never lose. He’s a realistic, believable, and even loveable character. He says the stuff that people are thinking but dare not say. Definitely a great character.
House Character Personalities – Part 5 of 6 – Dr. James Wilson June 9, 2008
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Dr. James Wilson. You have to love Wilson. There are hardly any aspects of his person
ality that are bad. Throughout the series, we see Wilson and his numerous failed relationships. Almost every one of the females complained that he was to “caring” or “considerate.” That’s almost a paradox if you think about it. How can you be to caring? It is speculated many times by House, that Wilson feels like he needs to “fix” the women he marries, or even dates. Then when they actually adjust, he moves on. Hence the reason he can’t stay in a relationship.
Wilson is pretty much the only friend House has. This is where the Holmes/House and Watson/Wilson comparison comes in. If you’ve read any of the Sherlock Holmes novels by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, you’ll know that House’s and Wilson’s relationship is almost if not exactly identical to Wilson’s and Holmes’s. It’s very interesting to re-watch and observe the comparison. Wilson, in some ways, is opposite of House. He obviously cares for patients 1000% more. He isn’t opposite in all ways, though. He knows how to manipulate, as we see in the episode “House vs. God,” where he talks House’s patient into taking treatment for an illness. House recognizes, and also loves this ability. House once called Wilson a “a buddy of mine people say ‘Thank you’ to when he tells them they are dying.”
We see Wilson’s loyalty to House many times throughout the series, particularly when Vogler attempted to get House fired. Wilson was the only one to vote against the termination of House, causing his dismissal as well. However, he quickly comes back after Vogler is removed from the board, as they realize he is the donated money wasn’t worth the problems he was causing.
Wilson cares about House, obviously. We see him attempt to fix House’s problems with Vicodin in many times throughout the series. He even assisted Tritter, the detective investigating House’s drug problems. He eventually was coaxed into testifying against House; however he did this simply for House’s gain more than anything.
It is revealed in Season four that Wilson was dating Amber (a.k.a. Cutthroat Bitch) which was one of House’s former students which qualified for the job on his team. It was speculated by House, and also Cuddy that Wilson was only dating her because he wants a change from his typical neediness, but his need to be desired will feed off her need to control, and eventually it will destroy Wilson.
Overall, Wilson is a great character, and an excellent reflection of House in many ways, as well as a polar opposite. In my opinion, they contrast each other quite well.
House Character Personalities – Part 4 of 6 – Dr. Lisa Cuddy May 27, 2008
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Dr. Lisa Cuddy. To describe Cuddy, I’d have to say resilient. You would pretty much have to be resilient to put up with House and his antics however. She doesn’t take anything from anyone, House in particular. I would say that she’s pretty much the only other character on the show that can control House at all, if you’d even call it control. In reality, you can see the good relationship between House and Cuddy. They fight a lot, and of course there is sexual tension. She loves him and hates him all at the same time, but in a different way than Cameron.
There hasn’t been any information about Cuddy’s past revealed, or any about her family. House and Cuddy had a history before the show started. They supposedly met at the University of Michigan. She also treated House when he had the infarction in his leg, and at that point, she wasn’t the Dean of Medicine, simply a doctor.
Cuddy sometimes reminds me of a mother, and House a child, with her keeping him in line. It’s obvious that Cuddy agrees with House’s decisions about risking lives to save lives, but has to keep a political point of view, since she’s the “boss” as House has so many times stated. Cuddy seems to also prefer Foreman to the other Doctors’ of House’s team, even before the new team. She often took Foreman’s side in minor situations throughout the seasons.
We see a couple of episodes where Cuddy and Wilson went out on dates, and this of course made House insanely jealous, although he never admitted that. She was looking for a father for a child, and Wilson was a candidate. It’s fairly obvious that a lot has gone on in the past between House and Cuddy, particularly a one-night stand. House’s attraction is also apparent in many situations, where he makes sexual jokes toward her.
Overall, Cuddy is a great character, and is the perfect person for keeping House in-line. It’s obvious that deep down, she’s a caring person that just wants to live a normal life. We see her excellent parental abilities when she’s given custody of a patient that was a young girl. Although at first she thought she was doing a terrible job, in the end it turned out better than she expected.